Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Blah Blah Blah, I'm Sorry!

It was pointed out to me last night, quite gently, that I had not posted for a month. I had the good fortune, thanks to the intercession of family and my caregivers, to sneak away for a week. That meant the pre-trip frenzy for the week before and the wild running catch up of the week after. On top of which, blah blah blah. I’m sorry.

Mom did really well in my absence. Somewhere inside she recognized that things were different and people were with her that aren’t usually, so she put on her hostess and she was awake and aware and alert for the whole week. When I came home, she must have registered that she was off duty because that afternoon, she went to sleep and has been mostly sleeping throughout the ensuing week and a half. We think this is just her recovery time from being “up and on” for so long, but as it carries on longer and longer we wonder if it is really a drop into a new phase.

Mom was just renewed for Hospice, which now occurs every two months. She has lost body mass and is less functional, in general, than she was two months ago. She is eating and drinking less, as a rule, than before, but she is still eating a nice breakfast and a small dinner each day. It does seem that she has a bit of trouble sometimes figuring out how to swallow, that’s something that we will have to keep an eye on as things progress. We want to avoid choking.

She is also exhibiting more signs of trembling when she is stressed, but it doesn’t seem to show up otherwise. The nurse has advised us that the trembling can be a result of muscles breaking down causing loss of control. So, again, we are watching for signs of increased trembling, but are not seeing any as of now.

Other than that, it’s pretty much snoozing and eating and a little fun movie now and then. My sisters even rolled her bed out onto the back deck, part way, so she could see the world a bit better. We have some pretty hot weather right now, but when the afternoons cool off, we might make start doing that more often! Brilliant Sisters!

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